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Interview:
Nige 54, Author, AROUND THE WORLD IN 80 BABES!
NIGE
54 - DATING COACH & AUTHOR
Nige
54 a.k.a The Nigester, it's great to have the opportunity
to sit down with this generation's leading Dating
Coach for men and women, the author of the hugely
entertaining novel 'Around The World In 80 Babes!'
and the creator of the sensational website www.nige54.com
Thanks
mate. That's very flattering.
So
Nige, what's your background, where do you come from?
Mate,
I just started out as an average guy from the suburbs
in Melbourne. I come from a middle class family, went
to a good school, then university and started work
in the city in 1998.
But
clearly you're not average anymore
Yeah,
well that's probably the case today. I made the decision
that I wanted to go from average to phenomenal in
all aspects of my life and I suppose that happened
after an awakening of sorts which is how 'Around The
World In 80 Babes!' begins. But I am still a very
long way from where I want to go
I have
tasted the kind of lifestyle I want on a number of
occasions, but the challenge is to create that and
then maintain it every day.
So
when did you realise that you had a gift picking up
babes?
I
don't know if I have a gift
but throughout
my teenage years and early adulthood, I always did
reasonably well. But the turning point came for me
at the end of 1999. When I looked back at the conclusion
of that year and realised that I had been with more
girls and was involved in more crazy situations in
one year than I had in my entire life, I thought I
might be onto something. I then went overseas in the
middle of the following year and at the conclusion
of my Contiki tour (detailed extensively in Chapter
3 of 'Around The World In 80 Babes!'), when even the
Contiki tour guides were shaking their heads at my
statistics, I knew that I had arrived. I didn't necessarily
have a gift, but rather the ultimate strategy.
So
is that why you decided to write "Around The
World In 80 Babes!"? To show guys the ultimate
strategy?
To
some extent. The main motivation in writing this book
was due to the amount of females out there who have
written books about men, dating and relationships.
With respect, so many of these books are just crap
and I thought it was about time we heard the male
perspective.
Is
that when you realised that you were living and breathing
book material?
I
suppose I believed that I had a story that I thought
was more interesting than the fiction these females
had created and after receiving some very encouraging
responses from friends and associates who I discussed
the idea with, I knew I just had to turn this idea
into a book.
For
those who have not read it yet (and shame on them!),
what is 'Around The World In 80 Babes!' all about?
This
book is about a lot of things. Primarily it is about
my transformation from boring accountant to ultimate
player through some pretty amazing globe trotting
adventures throughout some of the most popular party
destinations in the world. This book includes the
ULTIMATE guide to picking up chicks, but it also talks
about things such as how to organise a threesome,
what is the best age to travel, how to win when girls
start playing games, why you should hold girls accountable,
how the craziest suggestions can sometimes give you
the most amazing outcomes and at the end of it all,
this amazing tale turns into a love story that results
in the most unexpected twist which re-defines the
word "unpredictable".
Well
you're right about that as the ending totally surprised
me. Now considering the book is called 'Around The
World In 80 Babes!', do you hook up with eighty babes
in the book?
Ha!
I actually haven't counted. But I don't think so.
Ok,
so if we change the subject a little, what are your
thoughts on relationships?
Relationships
can provide you with the most amazing opportunities
and experiences in your life but if you are unhappy
in any relationship, then you are wasting your time
and your life.
So
if you are in a relationship and not happy what should
you do?
Break
up and move on. There are so many awesome babes in
the world that will make you happy so go out there
and get to work!
And
is it this kind of advice that has resulted in you
becoming this generation's leading dating expert and
as I understand it, a Personal Dating Coach for men
and women?
Kind
of
my role as a Dating Coach came through
the evolution of process. Following the book and the
monthly column, my move to Dating Coach was simply
the next step. But we should note that I am perhaps
that ONLY Dating Coach for men and women as my consultations
combine the best attraction, seduction & dating
strategies for men while assisting women to improve
their dating and relationship skills. www.nige54.com
has all of the details and the Dating Packages that
are available.
And
through these Dating Packages, your clients get to
deal with you one on one?
That
is exactly right. Unlike the various DVD packs and
tapes you can buy which may or may not assist you,
my Dating Packages allow me to use my expertise as
one of this generation's leading dating experts with
LIFE EXPERIENCE in over 15 countries and 50 cities
throughout the world to deal with your specific issues
and the areas that YOU want to concentrate on.
That
sounds extremely exciting
And
it's also sensational value for money that comes with
a money back guarantee.
Well
Nige, I think we need to talk after this interview
as I could definitely do with a few tips. Ok, so back
onto 'Around The World In 80 Babes!' - I am wondering
- did any babes ever audition for your book, and if
so, how?
Ha,
ha, ha! It's fair to say that not every babe during
the time period that the book covers (1998-2001),
is written about otherwise I never would have finished!
But there were no formal additions
maybe
I could think about that for a future project?
So
who's your best score, your Number 1?
Man,
tough question. There have been some awesome Eastern
Europe babes, Swedish goddesses, American cheerleaders
and some Aussie beauties
I will have to
get back to you!
What's
your best ever line?
I
am not a huge fan of one liners but throughout 'Around
The World In 80 Babes!' I had quite a bit of success
with, "Hi, I'm Nige 54"
What
are your favourite meeting and pick up places?
The
fact is that if you have the right strategy you can
pick up anywhere, anytime. You can't go wrong on a
summer Contiki tour or partying in the Greek Islands,
but throughout the book, I had great success at the
Zoo Bar in London. Yet, after a four week trip overseas
in 2004, my favourite place would have to be Miami
during Spring Break. Unbelievable!
Have
you ever settled down with the one woman?
Yeah
I have. I fell in love with my first serious girlfriend
when I was seventeen and then again with an American
goddess during 'Around The World In 80 Babes!' To
find out more you'll have to read the book.
Mate,
already have and just loved the ending! What reactions
to the book have you been receiving from men and woman?
Guys
love it. Girls want to hate it, but I think they can't
resist being drawn in and as such, I have received
some of my most positive comments from females.
So
who's your dream date?
Amy
Smart.
Really?
Most guys would say Pamela Anderson or Carmen Electra.
Yeah,
well I'm not like most guys. Most guys spend too much
time dreaming and not enough time doing.
Why
is a positive mental attitude important?
Because
it is the foundation that drives me. That should be
the case for everyone.
What
inspires you?
I
am inspired by a lot of things
from the
underdog coming from nowhere and winning to normal
people who achieve extraordinary things like beating
cancer or any kind of life threatening situation.
But I'm also inspired by people like Michael Jordan
and Tom Cruise who are champions in their respective
fields who continue to produce the goods time and
time again. The way Michael J. Fox has battled Parkinson's
disease has been awe-inspiring.
So
is 'Around The World In 80 Babes!' the groundbreaking
novel of the 21st Century?
Ha!
No question.
What
other directions do you see it taking?
I
would love to turn it into a screenplay or TV series.
And
we can purchase 'Around The World In 80 Babes!' through
your website www.nige54.com?
Yes,
it's only $24.95 Aussie dollars.
And
is there a sequel to 'Around The World In 80 Babes!'?
Not
a sequel, but a trilogy. I have two more books planned,
but I really need the support of a publisher to ensure
a timely result. Writing a book while working full
time is a massive challenge that, at times, I can't
believe I actually completed. People always ask me
where I found the time and even I am still not sure.
That's why it took me nearly three years from writing
the first word to arriving at this point.
Well
Nige 54, I hope that happens as I can not wait for
the sequel, let alone the trilogy. Best of luck and
thanks for your time.
Thanks
mate. The pleasure was all mine.
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