Interview - AllyThomas

Interview: Ally Thomas, tantra practitioner, coach and author


Mind, Body and Spirit Australia

What or who inspired you to write your book “What Women Really Want – 6 Tantric Sex Techniques for Men and Couples”?

Many friends - my life story and how Tantra and my business was interwoven. I called it ‘Finding My Passion with Tantra’. When it was finished I realized that quite a few people might not want to be in a book about tantra and so I divided it into 2 books. It sat around for a while, until I attended a workshop in Brisbane on 7 July 2014 called “The Book Inside Me’. Steve Brossman said something that really got me motivated. He said “if you have a message to give to the world (and everyone has), you can either whisper it one to one, or shout it out – by writing a book!”

How long has it taken you to write it?

About 4 years, on and off

What is your passion?

My passion is tantra, tantra massage and teaching people about sacred sexuality, feeling the shifts and seeing the healing that people have as a result.

How to you teach something esoteric and intangible as Tantra?

Mostly by example. As I am passionate about it, I live what I teach. Sometimes there is a sort of transmission of energy, if the person is ready for it. It can be a physical, spiritual or emotional release. Everyone learns something from my Tanta Pleasure Experience and some people get more than they expect! See Testimonials on my website.

What is Tantra Pleasure Experience?

My Tanta Pleasure Experience is a sensual erotic tantric massage, where I teach men how to control their orgasm and ejaculation (and erection). It’s very relaxing and energizing. Some people have a full body orgasm, others feel tingling energy for 24-48 hours afterwards. I teach women how to tune into their feminine energy and move energy around their body with their breathing. It’s very nurturing and sensual and relaxing.

How long has your Tantra massage and Tantra training business been running?

Since 2008 – seven years

What is your website?

Do you train people to do what you do?

Yes. I have trained 10 people – both Men and Women – to do tantra massage either for personal or business purposes. Training is one-one and flexible. More information on

Where do you practise and teach tantra?

I am based in Adelaide, and travel all over Australia and New Zealand. Perth, Sydney, Brisbane, Melbourne, Canberra, Newcastle, Rockhampton, Auckland, Wellington and other towns and cities. See my schedule on my website.

Who do you teach?

Men women couples – one-one, couples, 3 hour Playshops, Couples weekend workshops (Bring Back the Honeymoon)

Do you have videos on You Tube?

Yes I have three – 2 about my tantra massage and one about my book

What else do you want to know?

Ally Thomas
Tantra Teacher, Trainer & Healer
My Tantra Massage
JOY Just Organising You

Author of upcoming ebook and book "What Women Really Want: 6 Tantric Techniques for Men and Couples” to be released 2015

I have been a seeker and I still am, but I stopped asking the books and the stars. I started listening to the teaching of my Soul. ~Rumi

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