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During
the month of May 2001, by Giles
During the month of may 2001, I was drawn into a fight
that I for one, never thought would happen to me and
two, never thought the consciences would be so detrimental
as they have been. The reason I never thought they'd
happen to me, wasn't because I never thought that
a relationship would fail, as I was 30 years old id
been in a few relationships for extended periods of
time, I had thought of the relationship with the person
as being one that the children would be respected
at the least. What I didn't relies I was dealing with
a women who had a determined mind set to conceive
a child by me but not allow me to be involved in his
life. Three days after a ultra sound confirmed she
was pregnant I was expelled from the house, granted
I had made mistakes during the relationship, at this
point I will say this, show me a human being who doesn't
make mistakes and ill show you a lying fool, there
was no violence or cheating, The mistakes were made
when I didn't see what she was doing and reacted badly
to the mind manipulation, lies, back-stabing that
was being exercised so ruthlessly, to invoke a reaction
therefore justifying her mind set.
When
I acknowledged the fact that I was going to be a father
the thought of dissolving the relationship was farthest
from my mind, dealing with the troubles the best way
I knew how was on my mind but what can anybody do
when the other party can only see what they've got,
is all they wanted and the fact was, in this instance,
I was in the way.
Any
shrink will tell anybody that there are several basic
emotional states a human will go through when faced
with grief, anger, denial depression etc, why are
these basic rules of reaction not aloud to the male
when having to deal with the family court. It seems
to me after going through the court system the laws
have nothing to do with human beings, and to act like
one especially a male is a sin, it is apparent that
there other underlying reasons for males being discriminated
against, I find it impossible to believe that the
sexiest rulings that are so detrimental to the male
and the males family aren't economically based.
The
family court refuses to acknowledge the frustrations
of life, cause reactions, right across the board,
the family court might like to think of it self as
impartial but that couldn't be further from the truth,
by denying all aspects of human interaction and the
characteristics of both sexes they fail to understand
the situation therefore making ill informed decisions
that destroy lives, lets face facts the human has
been evolving for roughly 1.5 million years and for
99.9% of that time males have been predominately involved
in the more aggressive roles and females have been
predominately involved with the general duties in
a closer proximity to the living arrangements. The
two aspects functioned for the most part well, and
the human evolved. Women since the fifties have rebelled
from this role as a group and have insulted the males
for not evolving at the same rate. The bureaucrats
are failing in the own laws that they have put in
place, equal opportunity has been in place since the
late fifties and in particular the sixties yet we
see on a day to day basis the bearcats have hood winked
the female population of western culture, women are
being treated as fools there given token jobs to gain
votes, there spoken to in so-called understanding
voices with words that speak of equality yet actions
are few and far between if not non existent, so to
are males, they are used for making money they are
punished twice as hard as women, there given jobs
before females there put in the front line while women
are given token potions women are considered second
rate and for proof a person only has to look at society,
women are given the extra responsibility of raising
children because there considered second rate in the
work force.
The
government doesn't want females making up there share
the old fools like Howard want females to punch out
more children because it keeps men working and as
we all know men don't get maternity leave they work
harder and for longer, just as bush went into Iraq
to get oil under the gyes of weapons of mass destruction
people like Howard wont change the sexism of society
because its not economically viable. It amuses me
that there are so many idiots out there who say they
don't like Howard or for that mater in general the
policies of politicians but they go to the polls each
time believing that there vote makes a difference,
realistically there's no such thing as a democracy
when a population reaches a certain number, what western
culture is a different form of communism. What happened
to the results of marching for aboriginal affairs,
what changed for the aborigines ill tell you at the
first available moment the government shut down the
voice and government of the aborigines .In what way
does having more children help the economic out come
of a current government, if a child costs a half million
to raise why do people think that $600.00 given by
the government to the mother helps in anyway.
Why
don't males get maternity leave? Men need to adjust
to the demands of a new addition to the household.
Are the women of this country saying that men are
totally useless incapable of changing a nappy comforting
a child, are the women of western culture that aragent
and stupid that they would think this.
Now
for men, are men stupid ignorant fools, cowards no
less, have we all been mentally manipulated by females,
mentally abusive mothers, cant males stand up for
them selves as a group or even individuals, are males
that mind dead and so ineffective that we cant function
without the direction of a female.
At
the moment the current climate in relation to males
and females is an underlying dislike for each other
both males and females are acting badly towards each
other unfortunately women are becoming used to be
the victim which is a very bad social outcome for
both males and females as the attitude will as is
shown particularly over the last thirty years to divide
the social interaction of both parties, why is shivery
died now between young males and females when its
not dead between male to male ,answer males are becoming
head shy towards females which only leads to social
dysfunction within individuals soon there will be
separation again as we don't have equality we will
again divide ,not as in our old roles still practiced
by the more stately of our times (provider / house
maintainer) but male and female, it will then turn
to a sexist race of whom perform the general roles
of the needs of the society better on a day by day
scenario, is this a gamble that the human being wishes
to taken as there wont be respect and social function
but when looking at the other sex a waying up of importance
will be assed first, given the situation of dating
in our current time were both parties need to take
the resume to the restraunt , in what way is the situation
going to get better , its all looking like a straight
line into a situation where the sperm banks become
very big business as females choose the genetic make
up for there child and the male becomes a basic work
horse that works for pittance and the government takes
three quarters of all males pay to pay the females
for pumping out future workers , interaction between
males and females becomes minimal as there's no need
for interaction and the general feeling is of dislike
and distrust for the opposite sex , boys become workers
females continue to bier the new workers and the dictators
monopolies the power structures of economics and industries.
The
next person that says to me that access to my child
has nothing to do with my right as a father ill spit
in there face, if you wish to tell me that I am not
important as a human being I will show them the same
disrespect. The next person who try's to tell me that
a child is better of being dominated by one individual
rather than having the balance of several individuals,
ill call an ignorant fool who shouldn't have involvement
with a child as its this form of stupidity that leads
to teenage suicide and other anti social behavior,
the next time somebody says males are just abusive
pigs ill tell them to get there fact right as the
leading form of child abuse is mental abuse and the
majority perpetrators of mental abuse are females,
and mental abuse far out numbers all other forms of
abuse put together.
Until
the idiots in the government recognize there ill informed
and less than correct judgments and laws, the rates
of murder and suicide is going to be higher than need
be, but don't worry you people voted for idiots like
Howard who are happy to put children in jail go to
war for two faced reasons creating death in our own
areas that we had no problems with previously, continue
the persecution of the aborigines within there own
country, and encourage social divide by promoting
women to go back to the kitchen and keep men as the
main individuals and groups of this country. But don't
worry you voted for all that didn't you!?!?
Links:
Official
websites
Family
Court of Australia
Family
Assistance Office
Child
Support Agency
Fatherhood
Foundation
The
Lone Fathers Association
Websites
Dads
In Distress
Mens
Rights Agency
Articles
Discrimination
in Australian courts
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