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Interview:
Ally Thomas, Tantra practitioner, coach and author
Tantra
Teacher, Trainer & Healer
www.mytantramassage.com.au
www.TantraTrainingAcademy.com.au
www.RelationshipCatalyst.com.au
www.allythomas.com.au
Books
Tantra
Teacher, Trainer & Healer
My
Tantra Massage
Author
of upcoming ebook and book "What Women Really
Want: 6 Tantric Techniques for Men and Couples”
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What or who inspired you to
write your book “What Women Really Want –
6 Tantric Sex Techniques for Men and Couples”?
Many
friends - my life story and how Tantra and my business
was interwoven. I called it ‘Finding My Passion
with Tantra’. When it was finished I realized
that quite a few people might not want to be in a
book about Tantra and so I divided it into 2 books.
It sat around for a while, until I attended a workshop
in Brisbane on 7 July 2014 called “The Book Inside
Me’. Steve Brossman said something that really
got me motivated. He said “if you have a message
to give to the world (and everyone has), you can either
whisper it one to one, or shout it out – by writing
a book!”
How long has it taken you to
write it?
About
4 years, on and off
What is your passion?
My
passion is Tantra, Tantra massage and teaching people
about sacred sexuality, feeling the shifts and seeing
the healing that people have as a result.
How to you teach something esoteric
and intangible as Tantra?
Mostly
by example. As I am passionate about it, I live what
I teach. Sometimes there is a sort of transmission
of energy, if the person is ready for it. It can be
a physical, spiritual or emotional release. Everyone
learns something from my Banta Pleasure Experience
and some people get more than they expect! See Testimonials
on my website.
What is Tantra Pleasure Experience?
My
Tantra Pleasure Experience is a sensual erotic Tantric
massage, where I teach men how to control their orgasm
and ejaculation (and erection). It’s very relaxing
and energizing. Some people have a full body orgasm,
others feel tingling energy for 24-48 hours afterwards.
I teach women how to tune into their feminine energy
and move energy around their body with their breathing.
It’s very nurturing and sensual and relaxing.
How
long has your Tantra massage and Tantra training business
been running?
Since
2008 – seven years
What is your website?
www.mytantramassage.com.au
Do you train people to do what you do?
Yes.
I have trained 10 people – both Men and Women
– to do Tantra massage either for personal or
business purposes. Training is one-one and flexible.
More information on www.TantraTrainingAcademy.com.au
Where do you practice and teach Tantra?
I
am based in Adelaide, and travel all over Australia
and New Zealand. Perth, Sydney, Brisbane, Melbourne,
Canberra, Newcastle, Rockhampton, Auckland, Wellington
and other towns and cities. See my schedule on my
website.
Who do you teach?
Men
women couples – one-one, couples, 3 hour Playshops,
Couples weekend workshops (Bring Back the Honeymoon)
Do you have videos on You Tube?
Yes
I have three – 2 about my Tantra massage and
one about my book
What else do you want to know?
Ally
Thomas
Tantra Teacher, Trainer & Healer
My Tantra Massage
JOY Just Organising You
Author
of upcoming ebook and book "What Women Really
Want: 6 Tantric Techniques for Men and Couples”
to be released 2015
I
have been a seeker and I still am, but I stopped asking
the books and the stars. I started listening to the
teaching of my Soul. ~Rumi
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Interview:
Ally Thomas, Tantra practitioner, coach and author
July
2026
Media
Man interviews long time friend and associate, Ally
Thomas, in the first time in about a decade. It has
been said that time Flys when your having fund. White
Light, Love and Zen.
1.
You have such a vast background in and around the
mind, body, spirit, creative and business would, so
when something asks, tell me a bit about yourself
and your career, where do you start?
I
enjoy learning and exploring new territory. I have
always enjoyed my sex life, and I loved receiving
and giving massages. Also I have done a lot of personal
development – both spiritual courses and workshops
as well as healing training, as I have always been
good with my hands!
In
2008 I went to Hawaii to do a Billionaire Bootcamp,
which would “change my life”. When I got
home to Brisbane I had an empty room, so I decided
to leave it empty, and see what dropped in. I visited
a friend who had just bought a massage table. Inspired,
I ordered one too.
I
started doing double massages with a male friend who
was a qualified masseur. I had done quite a few Tantra
workshops and I decided to add Tantra and NLP and
massage together, to teach people how to tune in to
their sexual energy and control it.
For
men it’s about performance, and control.
For
women it’s about tuning in to their feminine
energy.
Sex
education for Couples was also part of what I offered
and taught. We did double massages, and ran weekend
workshops.
In
2011 I moved to Adelaide, and started travelling around
Australia teaching people about Tantra. Every month
I went to a different state - Perth, Darwin, Alice
Springs, Canberra, Melbourne, Cairns, Sydney, Newcastle,
Rockhampton, Gladstone and Adelaide. Now I am based
in Adelaide and only teach here. I have trained about
20 people to do Tantra massage for a business or personal
reasons – in Tasmania, Gold Coast, Perth, NSW,
Canberra, Brisbane, Newcastle and Adelaide. And many
hundreds of men women and couples to enhance their
relationship with them selves and improve their sex
life. I have also run Sacred Feminine Workshops for
women in Tasmania, Brisbane and Adelaide.
2.
Have you always been so passionate and creative, or
was there a chain of events that went onto amplify
those attributes of yours?
I
think I have always been creative and passionate.
I love cooking, making things with my hands, stroking
and helping people to heal.
3.
How do you describe the main differences between sensuality
and sexuality?
Sensuality
is often softer, gentler, more feminine and receptive.
Sexuality is stronger and masculine and active. Where
sexuality is often mutual pleasuring simultaneously,
Tantra is more about one person giving and one receiving,
for a longer period of time – then you swap over.
4.
Is it common these days for men and women to seek
professional help with your personal relationships,
whether they are currently in one or not? Explain?
Yes
I am finding that men and women are seeing my help
for sexual education, especially mature couples whose
children have left home and they want to re-ignite
their sex life and pleasure each other more. They
are more open to learning about sexuality and have
the time to practise it together.
Also
many people have issues like communication, trust,
mental health, pornography, loss and grief, so they
need guidance and education, someone to listen to
them, without wanting to “fix” them, and
possibly giving them a different viewpoint on their
situation, so that they can love themselves more and
enjoy their life as they choose.
5.
You have authored a wide range of books these days.
From Tantra to mystery, fantasy and beyond. What is
your entire portfolio of published books, and what
inspired you to write each book?
What
Men and Women Really Want 2017
Akwa
and the Sea Goddess 2023
At
present I am writing 3 books – one is a contemporary
womens fiction romance, the second is a sequel to
Akwa and the third is about a sexy interplanetary
being…
6.
What are some good signs that a relationship is on
the right track, as well as some examples of when
a relationship is not on track and needs work or resolution?
A
relationship that is on the right track lasts more
than 3 months, there is good communication, absolute
trust, each person only wants the other and isn’t
interested in anyone else, laughs together, appreciates
little things, reminds each other of their love every
day
7.
Do you have any mentors or gurus, and if so, who?
I
have been inspired by many people – teachers,
coaches, clients, students, friends. My intuition
connects me to Source.
8.
How much can you learn from your clients ... things
that you may not get from a doctor, nurse, teacher
or other
I
learn a lot from my clients. They have helped me refine
and improve my life, my business and my love.
9.
What's your top 3 love movies?
Ghost,
10.
Best places to get to know someone who you have a
romantic type interest in?
Friends
are the best way to find someone for you. They know
you and the other person, and can put you together
easily.
Also
when you meet someone new that you are interested
in, get to know them as a friend first. Friends can
turn into lovers, and if it doesn’t work out,
you always have a friend.
11.
Best places for men to meet women who are over say
45 years old?
Dance
studio. Take dancing lessons, its fun, good exercise,
and you are in the arms of several different people
every 5 minutes in each lesson!
12.
What's your main current projects?
Writing
my romantic novel – “Finding Love”
13.
How has the internet helped your business, and how
many brands and websites do you have these days? The
entire list please?
I
have had the website www.mytantramassage.com.au
for about 15 years, and my Tantra massage business
is flourishing.
For
Tantra training my website is www.TantraTrainingAcademy.com.au
I
also have a website for my art and books, Transformational
Relationship Consultant, teacher trainer and healer
called www.allythomas.com.au
My
newest website is www.RelationshipCatalyst.com.au
for my NLP coaching and counseling for men women and
couples.
14.
What's your thoughts or advice on pick-up lines, or
do you advise men to try other approaches? Explain.
I
don’t have any advice except to be yourself.
Say hello as if the person was already a friend, a
special friend, and treat her with respect and honesty.
15.
How do you think a man or a woman knows they are with
the right one?
It’s
a deep inner knowing, which starts from a spark, grows
into a fire, no matter what happens, you know that
that person is the right one, for now and for the
rest of your life. It’s a magic energetic connection
that stays connected, no matter how far away you are.
With awareness you can psychically communicate with
each other, often thinking about the other person
and they ring or send a message you
17.
Your thoughts on music, frequency and vibration, be
it for writing, dancing, setting a scene or other?
Music
is a powerful way to connect, through listening, through
dancing, making love. Tantra is a connection of energy
too, weaving 2 people energies together in a dance
of control and surrender.
18.
What's a typical day or week entail for you?
At
the moment I practise and learn NLP with a colleague
on Monday afternoon, I am available for Tantra massage
on Tuesdays Wednesdays and Thursdays from 10am to
3pm. Friday mornings I do some personal organising
in the morning and every second afternoon I have a
regular client for Tantra massage. Once a month I
receive a 2 hour Kahuna massage. Also one day a month
I join a fellow author to write our books together
on a farm in the Adelaide Hills.
Weekends
are socializing with my partner, sometimes going camping
in our pop up camper – either by the Murray River
or in the “bush” of South Australia.
Ed:
Much wisdom, This will help many with various aspects
of their lives. Thank you. White Light.
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